EPHIPHANY
LONDON,
1991
I
left the building and turned onto Tottenham Court Road. Toward the Burger King,
with its smells of charred Colombian cow, oil soaked fries, and imported apple
pie, I was covered by the cold blanket that the half empty Centre Point
building cast across the intersection of Charring Cross, Oxford, and Tottenham
Court. Traffic, both human and other, contorted into its usual Five O'clock
knot. The sea of waving overcoats, sheathed umbrellas, and worn hats gave way
momentarily, absorbing me to into its mass. We, The Haggard Crowd, descended into the depths of
Tottenham Court Station, the mob of a thousand, thousand persons pressed tight
through the tens of tens turnstiles. Like drops passed through a dripping
faucet, each flowed in time with the flimsy yellow cards bribed to mechanized
guardians at the portals of twilight's passage.
Most
days ended like this: The long trek, the turnstile, the endless flights of
stairs, the rushing to the platforms, the waiting for the orange neon signs to
flash the arrival of the next train. Doors opening and shutting, people
pushing, elbowing, slipping, into any available crack on board the home bound
trains. Countless stops. Day in
and day out. Then as always the last leg calls. On through portals marked
"Way Out," We, now paired down to a few worn out individuals with
sagging hearts, waning energies and crumpled copies of The Evening Standard,
proceed out of the subterranean depths.
Like lost Morlocks, we blink fast farewells to the closing rays of sunlight,
to the herald of the night, of rest, of home. Sometimes through rain, sometimes snow, sometimes wind
always through cold, on We go. Day in and day out.
I
now included myself with this lot, this tired and dreary bunch who moved with
all the enthusiasm of the condemned proceeding to the gallows. I had come to
question the exuberance with which I had taken this job. Four years ago, as an
undergrad fresh with degree, being offered a news production assistant slot at
NBC News was a dream come true. Wading through a mass of political science
classes for four years (with a year of study in London itself) had paid off
with a job that was the envy of my friends and an easy mark to better things.
At
least I thought so at the time.
Graduation,
London, Life--there was a time when all of this was new and I was so full of
energy and excitement towards whatever these things brought me. Then at some
point, some marker I passed not seeing, some alarm I failed to hear, Life
slowed, graduation became boxed on a wall in my bedroom and my job fell into
routine. I scurried about, contributing a bit of copy here, watering down the
complexities of European affairs to a lowest common denominator there but
mostly making copies, getting coffee and earning the "fondness" of a
"reporter/producer" from the make‑dumb-ass-me‑look‑like‑I‑know‑what‑I‑am‑talking‑about-and-I'll-take-you-places
school of journalism. Everything
was replaced with an allure of something slipping away. Like the existential
despair that my silver haired college philosophy was so found of preaching
about, I found myself longing for something more.
It's
not that life was all bad. (Hell, I'm in my 20's and in London, right?). I had two cats‑‑ that
always counts for something-- and I was still in Love, which was more than most
people my age could talk about, right?
The flat Darby and I had managed (#316-E the crookedly hung numbers
announced) was a real steal. Located in a semi-decent part of the city, it had
lots of room, a kitchen with a close approximation of a skylight, plumbing
installed in the last 25 years and a quaint, exposed outside staircase that I
had to climb, up and down, every day.
All in all, a reasonably safe refuge to return to at the end of the
day.
And
yetÉ
Of
late the climb up those stairs felt more and more like a bad re‑telling
of the Sisyphus myth. Each night,
worn out, I trudged up worn stairs, carrying groceries or work or both. The
next morning I was moving in reverse, rolling back down those stairs, the
boulder of my life too heavy to stop. Am
I really only 25?
After
breezing through the market (why is it that in a city once the capitol of a
global empire every refrigerator available is dwarfed by the three foot high
model I used in college?) I trod up the stairs, balancing precariously a roll
of paper towels, the groceries and my briefcase in my left hand while fumbling
for the doorknob with my right.
Funny. Tilted this way, with my head aslant and my body leaning off
balance, the numbers on the door actually look straight.
Now,
if Darby will just take care of the‑‑
Bump
Stuck.
The door was stuck.
"Alacazam," I mumble, then bump it with my butt.
Two
little eyes peer out from around the expanding crevasse. Oh shit.
"Thatcher!"
I shout, trying to scare the cat back.
The door began to drift open (of course) so I try to stop her advance by
placing my leg in the ever-growing expanse.
"Darby!
Honey! Get the cat!" I call into the flat.
My
shoulder slipped in, my body pitched forward and my leg sent the cat shuffling
backwards into the room. Tripping into the kitchen, it was all I could do to
keep the contents of the paper bag from tumbling out. I simmer a look across
the apartment.
Thatcher
raised her tail, turned in a huff, and disappeared into the confines of the
back hall.
As
I entered the kitchen I tripped over yet another cat.
"Reagan...you
lazy good for nothing...son of a..." The psychological benefits of owning
animals is highly overrated.
The
fur covered ball of fat that nominally resembled a cat bat its eyes up at me.
From its perch atop a heating vent he uttered an audible "Meworwa,"
promptly dismissing me and returning to its lazy rest.
"Oh,
right. You're home," came Darby's soft twang.
"I
hate your country," was all I could manage.
"It's
my country now, eh?" He began without missing a beat. Light red, his hair
blew slightly as he moved from the back bedroom to the kitchen. The faded jeans
and brown dotted shirt hung loose around his thin frame. "Seems as though
it was your country not more than a week ago."
"Your
refrigerators are too bloody small," I griped.
I
opened the refrigerator and tried to find room inside.
"What
does one need a large refrigerator for? We're not all gas‑guzzling, ten
gallon hat wearing, pancake eating imperialists like you." Barefoot, he
crossed the last of the distance between us.
"The
size of a refrigerator bears a direct relationship to the greatness of a
culture, " I said in my best scholarly, bullshit voice.
We
kissed.
"What
does it say then when those refrigerators are made by the Japanese?" His
eyes lit up. An evil smile crossed his lips.
"Don't
poke holes in my analogies." I cautioned as I kissed him again.
He
poked me in the ribs.
I
poked him back.
Poke
fest!! A constant motion of fingers extending and contracting, striving to hit
as many body parts as possible. I thought I heard one of us call
"Truce!" in the middle of the melee of digit dancing, but nothing
much came of it. A couple of kidsÉ
I
was suddenly struck by how unlike a child's game our passion filled one really
was. Neither Darby nor I were
kids. Rents, jobs, stresses,
decisions and a host of other concerns tore through the simple enjoyment of the
poking game that now had become even more erotic as we tumbled into the sofa.
We weren't
kids anymore. I wasn't the twenty one year old American, fresh from University,
with a paying job, dreams of becoming the next Edward R. Morrow, and the energy
that allowed me to work all day and party all night. He wasn't the nineteen
year old artist, in the last weeks of his classes, with an art store job, a
fantasy of painting the next Mona Lisa, a muse that sketched fantastic images
on parchment pages and the driving desire to make love all night. Life had managed to do what it does
best: age us forward, fill us with distractions, and draw us away from the
immediacies of the moment.
We
parted lips once again and I asked, "Hey, did you get the job today?"
That
took the wind out of his sails.
"Damn.
You always do this." He left
me and pattered across the floor, mixing into the darkness of the back room. It
isn't just Life that can draw passion from a moment.
I
picked myself up, zipped my fly, and followed.
As
usual, Darby had taken up position in the unused room, behind the easel, next
to the large window overlooking the busy street below. As usual, framed in the
window, Thatcher, the cat that constantly tried to upset the balance of my
life, stared, teeth clicking, at the cars below.
The room was littered
with half finished sketches, paintings, drawings and photographs. A few
completed works adorned the peeling walls, offsetting the dark black stripes of
the yellowed wallpaper. Two of the
paintings, both of me, were finished. One was made when Darby and I first met
three years ago ("You look
good enough to model," he teased.) The other, the last thing I think that
I remember him completing, was a four month old painting ("The put upon
writer," he remarked with that same twisted smile.) Several other
pictures, photographs of the night sky really, filled out the collection. He said those reminded him of the night
he wished on when he was a boy living just outside of Melton‑Mowbry. For
him, they were both a link with the amber-cased past of memory and a symbol of
the winged future of imagination.
I never told him that they too reminded me of being young, when
imagination was all I had and a desire to grab a star occupied all of my waking
thoughts.
Darby
was ignoring me, letting off steam, working on the canvass before him. The
charcoal, held loosely, outlined a picture. On the off white canvass he drew a framing of the cat on the
windowsill starring out the window and of himself drawing that. It was just
like standing between two department store mirrors and watching as, boundless,
one is reflected both forward and back. A cat staring out a window and a man
painting the cat staring out the window painted by the man painting the cat
staring out the window...
"I'm
sorry." I said.
His
hand moved gracefully, arcing a circle, finishing a line. Fingers, thin and
narrow, added to the outline of the cat.
The sound of the clicking of the cat's teeth, the rolling percussion
from the back of Thatcher's throat that was directed at moving life below her,
was somehow there, in the picture, outlined along with the animals' fur.
Darby's
hand curled slightly, giving more definition to the hint of the easel in the
corner of the painting. "Do you wonder what she is thinking?" He
said.
The
clicking of the teeth, the rigidness of the back, the twitch of the tail.
"Sometimes."
He
filled in another line, shaping an image, giving definition to the indefinite.
"I think she would go out if she could," he continued.
I
kissed his neck. It was the only
thing I knew to do.
"She's
gonna have to. She has an appointment with the vet Tuesday, " I joked.
Darby
put the pencil down.
"Are
you going to be able toÉ finish it?" I ventured. Darby, his soft eyes
locking mine, seemed to cry inwardly for a moment in fear. He hadn't completed
anything in months. The apartment was littered with undone works, half started,
half realized, half-lived.
He
paused, seeming to question the canvass. He turned to me. "I didn't take
the job. I don't care to work in another art store."
He
stood and rapped his arms around me.
It was up to me to be responsible, to be the adult. I do it so well,
after all.
There
was a time once when the freshness of love was enough. It buoyed hopes, allayed
fears and covered a frightening existence with a quilt that kept the chill at
bay. Now it seemed that blanket of love was full of holes. Nothing, not even
the motion of those beneath, could keep the chill from touching us. He kissed.
I kissed. We walked me backward,
he forwards, room to room. My legs felt the bending presence of the bed. I reclined...the bed was absorbing,
comforting. Yet, as before, my mind ran. Tomorrow, next week, next month, next
year, I was still elsewhere. Not fully here. Detached.
Is
this an adult?
**
Later,
his body pressed against mine, warm sweat mingling between us, my eyes followed
the lights of the cars across the ceiling and down the wall. Thatcher had awoke from her slumber and
sat on the slim ledge of the room's window. Her gaze was intense, staring out into the night.
"What
do you think she is thinking about?" Darby asked. The filtered sounds of
the street below echoed softly about the room. I wonder if he knew he had asked
me this once already?
Pulling
close to him I said, "What's beyond."
Thatcher
licked lightly the back of her leg.
"That
was deep. For an American." He laughed. I looked into his eyes. Kissed. Warmth.
I
love him.
"What
about Reagan?" He asked.
"He
doesn't care. He just goes through the motions; as long as there is food on the
table and a warm place to sleep, he's fine."
Darby
teased: "You have a keen grasp of the feline mind."
"Thank
you. It comes from eating all those pancakes."
He
laughed.
Again
the quiet.
"I
get scared Adrian," came his voice, soft from sleep or fear I didn't know.
"Scared that I'm not going to cut it. I mean, I can't hold down a job.
Shit, I can't paint anymore. Who am I kidding?" I quieted him with a kiss,
distracted him from his pain with a touch from my passion. Yet my concern for
him, and me, couldn't be so easily stilled. How could I, in good faith, my face a mask of strength and
solitude, continue to hide the like‑same fear moving 'round the edges of
my soul?
***
At
Two AM the phone rang.
Loud
and cutting, it split our dreams and brought us back.
"Hullo?"
I croaked.
"Adrian?
Adrian Connor?"
I
could barely make out the voice through the din of music in his background.
Darby
stirred. "Who is it?"
"Yes.
Who's this?" I looked over at Darby, sleepy eyed.
"It's
Dave Tyrrand from the office." Ah. The make-me-know-dumbass-reporter so
fond of me.
"God, Dave. It'sÉwellÉ late. Is
there a story?"
"Settle back big guy. I got great
news. I've just been assigned to the State Department desk!"
"Wonderful."
I tried to mean it.
I
heard him laugh. The protestations against whip cream by a woman's voice in the
background were lost on me.
"I
knew you'd be as happy as I was." He laughed again.
"I'm
glad Dave but--"
He
said something about chocolate sauce and then: "You're coming with
me."
"What?"
I said, suddenly awake.
"I
want you to come with me. I need a second man. A junior reporter. A stand in.
And I want to make sure that the people who write for me have your same
flair."
"You
do?" It was hard to hold back my enthusiasm.
"Yeah.
No need to rush your decision. You got 'til Monday. Just let me know, KO?"
"KO."
I said before I could stop myself.
From
there, of course, everything moved so fast. I bounded from bed, ignoring the
draft on across my bare thigh, speaking a mile a minute in Darby's general
direction. "It's my break, Darby! A reporter! Dave--the dumbass--bless his
heart, wants me to be a reporter too. God I---jeez we've got to packÉ I've got
to call my parentsÉ I've got to tell Scott to try to find an apartment for us
in WashingtonÉ" When he didn't move to join me, I looked back over at him,
my eyes questioning that fallen look on his face.
"We've
talked about this before. You know there is no way that I can immigrate to
America."
I
slammed back to the real world. He was right of course. We had talked about
this once or twice. Darby explained to me that extended Visa's to America were
hard to come by (unless you were an "important person") for Brits and
that immigration quotas were so low that his moving to either the USA or Canada
was a virtual impossibility.
"I
don't want to go without you." I said. My dreams, a siren's song, once
soft in the distance, grew louder the more I played Tyrrand's offer through my
head. And too the anger, ever present, flowed fast for the cracks in my soul.
"This
is your break. You have to take it. They don't come around again."
"Spare
me the cliches. " I snapped. "I've seen Dead Poets Society
too."
"I
can still work at the art store."
"You
told me---" I began.
"I
know. I don't want to take the jobÉ but if I can't paint maybe I'll show others
how to."
"That's
not what you want."
"No
one could give me what I want." He said. "But you. Damnit,
you---"
"No."
I said firmly. "I am going to
turn him down on Monday."
"Adrian,
you can't turn this away just because of---"
"I
can and I will!" I shouted. Thatcher, spooked, moved from her perch and
fled the room. It was easier to
turn out the light, ending the conversation, than to try figure out why I hated
Life so when it had just given me nearly everything I had ever asked of it.
****
As
the last of the city slipped by and I found myself faced with the rolling
greens outside of London, there was little I could do but think about what was
going on inside me. Darby had suggested we rent a car and go out into the
countryside, into the greenbelt of park that surrounded London. I started the
morning sulking, avoiding every opportunity for conversation. As he packed a
picnic basket, a bedroll and a few other odds an ins, he made the "suggestion" for the drive.
It quickly became an ultimatum. When I acquiesced, I did so with the mistaken
assumption that I'd be able to push away what was going on inside me, what was
going on between Darby and me. Yeah, right.
All
that I could
see was that flowing anger inside of me. It was anger directed at Dave, the
dumbass who dared to drop a bit of my dream into my life. It was anger directed
at Darby, my lover, my friend. Someone I knew wouldn't last ten minutes in the
real world without my help. Darby, a child who dreams on shooting stars; a boy
who paints life with feeling; an artist that creates worlds from imaginings; a
man who leaves me so torn inside.
My anger was directed at Life. It dared to present me with a choice. I could have my future, my dreams, and
leave behind Darby to fend for himself, or I could refuse to grow. I could be
adamant and stay here, doing nothing and dying a little bit more each day.
I
could become a Morlock like all the rest.
Later
that evening, after we had found a small grove off the side of the road, away
from the traffic and behind a large hill, Darby and I sat staring into the
night sky. I thought about being a boy again, with life so new, so unexpected,
when dream and fantasy combined together to paint a picture of such intensity
that I couldn't take my eyes from it. Like a child, I sought shelter in the
warmth of his breast. I brought him to me. Our lips met. Fingers fumbled for buttons and
buckles. There was a quiet cool that slipped across the hillside. Flesh exposed, the night air raised the
hairs on my back. The chill was around me, in me. The heat of our bodies was
all. I felt the pounding of my heart. The dirt against my back. The reeds rolled, the dark greenery
waved as if in announcement.
Frenzied...fast. More and more. Rubber opened, unrolled. I felt him
close, drowning the chill. My heart beat faster and faster. I could hear the
blood racing. The roar that rose in my ears, the echo from something far, far
away, drowned out the chaos in my head.
jump
jump
I
let go of my mind. Finally lost in the moment, I ran from myself. The passion
that played forth in the field, our two bodies cramming against, within, with
each other, the warmth juxtaposed against the cool night, tried to keep me away
from the aching of the silence. His, no, My ache. My silence. It was the
echo of the night through the emptiness of my soul.
Jump!
Jump!
And
even in the after, with the bedroll pulled near and our bodies pulled close, I
could still feel it. My eyes cast skyward, my fingers playing with a lock of
his hair, and still I could hear it. I closed my eyes, trying like mad to push
it away.
JUMP!
JUMP!
*****
I
trudged up the stairs. I hadn't talked to Dave all week. I avoided him, kept
him at bay. Away. The newsroom was
a big place; schedules were tight, extra time fleeting. If I did nothing
perhaps things would stay the same.
I reached the door, with key in hand, bags balanced on my arms. My mind was elsewhere. On the job
maybe, or on me. But not on the door. Not on what was in front of me. The key
was in the lock, the door was twisting open, and I was entering into the
room.
Unrestrained,
Thatcher dashed.
Touching,
grasping, reaching.
The bag slipping from my grasp.
Splitting,
cracking, fracturing.
Jam flying across the floor.
Dropping,
falling, plunging. The milk, boundless, striking the
parterre.
Breaching,
bursting, emptying. Liquid forming a puddle around the
container.
Tripping,
staggering, stumbling. The pattern of tile expanding, meeting my face with the
smell of linoleum and a taste of blood.
Paining,
burning, hurting. Cool wetness washing around the outline
of my prostrate body.
Lapping,
slurping, licking. Reagan does its best to clean up the
mess.
Darby
entered the room. He almost screamed.
His arms pulled me up, resting my hurt form against his. The blood
trickled from my nose. I sat, wet, sticky, in the mess caused by emptiness. He
wiped the blood from me then moved some of the broken glass from the area. Reagan stared at the open door, then turned and
moved off. Thatcher was gone.
I
walked towards the bedroom and past the easel, missing for the moment the
completed picture of a man painting a man painting. I opened the window,
looking out into the city streets.
I fell onto the bed, eyes resting in the blinding glare of the white
light set into the ceiling. I heard Darby shut the door, then walk on bare feet
to the easel in the next room.
I
felt for the phone that rested nearby.
Even in our sleep
Pain that we cannot
forget
Falls drop by drop
upon the heart
Until in our own despair
Against our will
Comes wisdom
Through the awful
grace of God.
‑‑‑Aeschylus